233 - A Dating App For People Wanting to Marry

Marrying America isn't another dating app—it's an intentional courting website designed for people seeking their forever person. Founded by Jeremy Nelson, the platform addresses a critical gap: too many dating platforms mix people with completely different intentions, leaving serious relationship-seekers frustrated by matches who aren't looking for commitment.

How the Match System Works

The platform's design ensures intentionality through strategic limitations. Users can only send five match requests per month—that's it. When you send a request, you reserve a credit that goes into escrow. The recipient has seven days to evaluate your profile. If they decline, you get your credit back at no cost to them. If they accept, both parties spend a credit, creating mutual financial investment that signals genuine interest from day one. This isn't about profit—it's about commitment.

Dating Versus Courting

Jeremy distinguishes clearly between dating and courting. Dating is about having fun with no particular destination in mind. Courting means you're looking for a specific outcome: a serious, sustained, lifelong partnership. Marrying America facilitates courting, not casual dating. Every person on the platform has explicitly joined to find their forever relationship, eliminating the guesswork about intentions.

Built for Everyone

The platform is completely inclusive—open to all races, orientations, abilities, and disabilities. "No matter what makes you you," the site welcomes anyone seeking serious commitment. It's web-based (not an app) and accessible through any browser on phones, computers, or tablets. Joining is free, and users get their first three credits at no cost with access to 100% of features.

Safety Through Intentionality

The five-match monthly limit serves a dual purpose: it ensures thoughtful selection and discourages scammers. Bad actors need volume to operate effectively; limiting matches to five per month makes the platform inefficient for anyone with dishonest intentions. While you can only send five requests monthly, you can receive unlimited requests—then decide which to accept.

Simple and No-Risk

Creating a profile takes just 10-15 minutes. There's no monthly subscription, no recurring fees, no ongoing costs. You can actively search or simply let others find you. Visit marryamerica.com to join.

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